Where does customer data physically live?
Customer data lives in your environment. The proxy runs inside your VPC, with your credentials, against your databases. It never copies data to DataDam.
The control plane is the only DataDam-operated component. It runs in AWS US-East-1 and receives metadata only: rollup counts, top-N names, latency percentiles, masked entity counts. No query content. No row values. No PII.